Patriarchal Parents and Girls' Marriage Expectations
This scene in Modha Rathri, where Muthu says that her family never allows her to do anything has everything to do with girls' expectations from a marriage. Hear her asking Maruthu if is it wrong to live the life she wanted - and it is never about gold or a husband like Yash - they were simple wishes - a trip, a word of appreciation, to continue competing in zonal events. Because she didn't get any of these valid expectations, she was desperate to break free and proposed to Nitish. These rejections from family is behind the expectations of the girls in the Tamizha Tamizha show. Circa 2017, when Karuththu Kannammaa page was gaining traction in India/Tamil Nadu, women from TN used to text us about their parents not allowing them to do anything - saying that they can do whatever they want after marriage, with their husbands. From cutting their hair short to going on a trip, everything was denied and saved for "after marriage." In fact, there is a very famous meme: "I...