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After Illness-Related Disability, I Ran to Find a Job, Not a Husband

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  In less than a year, I went from the left to the right — a bright student to a disabled young woman. Needless to say, it was devastating. But if there was one thing about me, as a student and as a disabled woman, I knew that a man's money isn't the answer. My money, no matter how little, is the answer. 💔 The Man Who Pursued Me… Left As I fought for my life in the hospital after diagnosis, the man who wanted to marry me — he brought a proposal through his family — absconded. He was my cousin's wife's brother. Everyone thought that he'd be a good husband for me. Except for the fact that marriage was the last thing on my mind — as a 19 year-old, I was worrying about my A-levels exam results and whether I'd bounce back in time to attend university and pay off the mortgage on the house my mom bought. 👁️ When Reality Hits, You See What’s Best for You I went from a so-called “attractive girl” to a girl on wheels everyone pitied — because “no man would marry ...

Dude Roast

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  One line review: Dude tries to please both progressive and regressive audiences and fails at both - while succeeding at being shallow. 1. A woman proposes and the man she proposes to cracks a bawdy joke. Progressive: Woman proposing - appeals to progressive audience. Regressive: Man uses a blue film reference to the kneeling position  - appeals to regressive male audience. 2. Kural proposes marriage to Agan without even asking if he has mutual feelings for her. She assumes that he loves her because he's her first cousin. I saw this in Romeo Juliet as well. How can people assume such things? It's like an arranged marriage setup - everything works presumptuously.  3. Nuptial thread isn't important - what's important is the girl's heart behind the thread - then proceeds with a dialogue that yarn can't thread a needle without the needle's consent. Honestly, it was exhausting and confusing at the same time. The film tries too hard to round up divisive audiences...