Kannammaa Writes

I think Indian men are the worst when it comes to intimacy. I have been reading numerous confessions where married Indian women felt that sex feels like rape every night for them. No care. No love. No affection. Robotic and rigid. These types of Indian men watch porn and are only keen on penetrative sex. Cuddling with their wives is something emasculating for them. Coz men are not supposed to be gentle and tender! That is what this patriarchal system teaches men. Women, on the other hand, yearn for love and care before both leads to sex. Indian men translate this as ‘women being needy, clingy, and slutty.’ Coz we have taught men that women who know about sex and what they want in sex are bad women. Hear out your wives and respond positively, dear Indian men If you watched The Great Indian Kitchen and Vallamai Tharayo, you’d know. When women say that they’d like some foreplay, sexy talks, teasing, flirting, and calling each other endearing names to their husbands, the latter is ...

  I am a self-proclaimed feminist. I actively speak feminism on Instagram under the tutelage of my Facebook page, Karutthu Kannamamaa which is also managed by co-admins who are also my friends. I recently learned that my pictures are on lewd Tamil pages, captioned “Sexy Feminist Bitch waiting for customers.” LOL😂😂😂. This is the only way right-wing people can extend counter-narratives. It is also the easiest way to shut a woman up, leveraging age-old patriarchy that fixes a woman’s dignity and honor on her body. But I won't shut up.😈😈😈💅💅💅  In the initial days of Karutthu Kannammaa, Malaysian Indian men issued rape and murder threats against the admins, my ex-schoolmate, and me😄😄😄. My friend and I persisted and today, the page is famous in India and it is the Indian men’s turn to slut-shame us💤💤💤. I have received numerous slut-shaming texts in my Instagram DM.  If we want to break patriarchy effectively, we must first break the patriarchy within us. I...

  I really want to talk about the attributes of Vaathi Coming . Call it a written reaction or whatever, lol. Vijay = Youth na Ippadi dha Irukkum (This is how you do Youth) The man is 47 in 2021. How he maintains his health shows. I know that he likes mutton curry and thinks that vegetables taste sad like Uncle Roger . But unlike those who call Trisha aunty after eating mutton biryani and sitting on their ass, he actually takes care of himself - workout to flush out toxins and burn the extra fat and calories. Yes, his trade calls for such body maintenance but as a person who is health conscious like me, I like that. I also like Gita Gopinath, Trisha, Surya , Dhanush, Shilpa Shetty, and Malaika Arora for the same reason. Now, if only the rest of the Indian society doesn't practice gendered sexism and gives credit to women who age gracefully just like the men. The Background Dancers' Active Involvement I think this is the only Tamil song to date that used the talent of th...