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How "Virginity" and Purity Culture Ruined My Life

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Let me tell you all how my "virginity" kudi muligify my valkai (ruined my life).  Have you seen me as a 13 year old schoolgirl who wanted to excel in education? An 18 year old school dropout and gang member developed a covetous eye on me and gave me "love" torture wherever I went. One day, he followed me into my house and demanded me accept him as my boyfriend. I said, "Sorry. No," politely. When he refused to leave without me giving him a positive response, I defended myself using an aerosol insect spray. I bruised his male ego. And he decided that he would take away my "virginity" so I would have no choice but to accept him. He hatched a plan with his homies and cornered me in a dark, deserted alley when I was cycling home from tuition that night itself. As he felt me up, bit my shoulder, attempted to undress me, and tried to take me to an abandoned shed to finish the "business", I suffered immensely. None of that compares to what he ...