Kannammaa Writes

Let’s be honest for a second... being Michael Jackson sounds like a dream, but when you look at the reality, it was more like a gilded cage. And I think we need to understand how much Michael struggled with things we take for granted, like basic social cues and "reading the room". Here is a breakdown of how Michael’s "squeaky clean" heart and his lack of a normal life created a "lose-lose" situation he could never really win. 1. He Never Had a "Normal" Manual Most of us learn what’s appropriate by just living a regular life, but Mike was famous since the 60s. He never had a childhood, never had solid "regular" relationships, and honestly, didn't have a chance to learn the social cues we use to navigate the world - his crippling social shyness and hypersensitive soul didn't help either. While we know how things "look" on the surface, Michael’s intentions were so pure to him that he didn’t realize the public wouldn...

Michael Jackson respected women. He didn’t treat women as conquests. And this is important to emphasize because Michael Jackson absolutely could have treated women like collectibles if he wanted to — especially in his 20s. Women of all races — white, Black, brown, beige — were obsessed with him.  He was beautiful, charming, soft-spoken yet electric. Men wanted to be him. Women wanted to touch him, date him, marry him. There has honestly never been another male celebrity with that level of universal desirability and hysteria. But Michael wasn’t chasing women like trophies. He was looking for love. Real love. A stable relationship with a woman he could trust and feel safe with emotionally — something he sadly never fully got. And despite the heartbreaks in his life, he didn’t become bitter. He didn’t start preaching that women are evil manipulators. He didn’t become entitled. He remained shy, awkward, romantic, and deeply respectful around women. Compare that to the podcast bros of t...